ARIES

ARIES IN LOVE: They like to make the first move, are head strong and confident.  They’re quite independent, but once they’ve met someone that strikes their fancy, they jump in recklessly.  They need passion and rebirth in their love life.  And sex.  And fights.  Make-up sex is an Aries hallmark.

ARIES EXPECTATIONS IN LOVE:  They give passion and expect it in return.  They have a child-like naïve type of love style.  They can be selfish and want all of their partner’s attention, even though they require a high degree of freedom.  They want to get their way!

ARIES BIGGEST SECRET:  Inside is a child who is looking for warmth, comfort and praise.  A partner who admires their innocent inner self, will have the Aries appreciation.


ARIES & ARIES

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Vital, passionate, in a hurry to get started!  Impulsive couple, may not mind a little heat and fight. 

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Who’s the boss?  Both can have fight or flight natures, and can leave when there’s conflict, or boredom

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: too quick to get physical, projection and mirroring, one of the partners needs to be the giver and one the receiver, fights 

Harmony:  active, never a dull moment, they will enjoy working on projects together, competing with one another, make-up sex

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Who wears the pants?  Are they fighting or playing or just being their normal selves

Passionate, hot, sexy, immature or flighty, slightly ADD or ADHD


ARIES & TAURUS

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

A Venusian and a Martian together.  Yin and yang, passionate firey energy and sensual, earthy beauty.   This is particularly good with an Aries Man and Taurus Woman.   The Taurus is a soothing for the Aries frequent upsets and burns.  Taurus will work hard to keep the relationship together, while the Ram will feel admired. 

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Both Aries and Taurus can be rather stubborn.  Aries can be impossible when he doesn’t get his way and Taurus can be bull headed when she doesn’t want to make changes or be as spontaneous as the Ram.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict:  The Aries may fail to meet the Taurus emotional security needs.  Hurt feelings or a sense of absence while he’s out on his adventures can leave Taurus feeling lonesome and unsure of the relationship.  Taurus needs a higher level of closeness and certainty than the Aries and might suffocate the Aries a bit.

Harmony:  These two will have a passionate interaction, at least at first.  This might be demonstrated sexually, depending on their sexual planets…but definitely as a supporter (Taurus) and supported (Aries).  Earth Mother/Parental energy from the Taurus and a Child who needs the structure (Aries). 

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

They might wonder how much the Taurus is willing to put up with, and yet see that the two have a sweet passion together.  It can look a sexy push/pull love from the outside.


ARIES & GEMINI

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS 

Both have a child like interest in new trying things, going on adventures and experiencing life up close.  These two will have a sparky, care free vibe to their relating. 

LONG TERM INTERACTION

These two could have a long term relating if they are both able to prevent their ADD from taking over, the relationship could lack the depth necessary to keep both people invested for the long haul.  But since we’re dealing with two personality types that don’t really mind when things are shallow, you may have a great match.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: On again, off again quality to these two.  Gemini needs multiple social connections with people of both genders, Aries may not appreciate that and have a mini temper tantrum…or go out and do the same.  Revenge!  When nothing was meant by the Gemini.  Gemini might get tired of Aries constant outbursts, preferring to keep things light and easy

Harmony:

Both are personality types that need movement and a level of freedom to be comfortable.  Gemini’s new ideas and optimism will feed Aries need for new adventures.  The need to be close and then apart is strong with both Sun signs so there’s a nice flow of togetherness and solo time.

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Youthful, playful and ideal partnership. 


ARIES & CANCER

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS 

The emotional ups and downs of the Cancer, perhaps the lack of a common language between the two may draw Aries like a moth to a flame.  He can’t resist a challenge.  And being told that he doesn’t have the emotional chops to rescue the Cancer partner is just enough bait to get him chasing her.   The Cancer may appreciate the way the Aries has a plan, and most likely was taken by surprise and captured by the Aries before she had enough time to give a true response.

LONG TERM INTERACTION

A relationship with two very different individuals, Aries needs spontaneity and risk, Cancer needs introspection and security.  Long term mismatch of needs.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Aries needs passion, danger, risk and Cancer needs safety, protection and security

The Aries could provide a sense of protection for the Cancer heart, if he was evolved, but ultimately the Cancer needs a deeper intuitive connection and a partner who has the maturity to sit in silence with her sometime.s

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

The Aries will probably come out looking like the bad guy/gal in this partnership.  Always hurting the Cancer’s feelings and the Cancer might look weak and like she’s being strong armed over and over by the headstrong Aries.


ARIES & LEO

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Both have the uncanny ability to win at everything they try, or at least they seem to think they win at everything they try.  There will be fire and a competitive spirit, which both signs enjoy.  The question will always remain, who is boss?  Leo needs undying admiration and Aries is not the type to hand that over very easily.

LONG TERM INTERACTION

There will be a theme of hurt egos that will be repeated over and over with these two, yet they will keep coming back together because there is a deep inherent understanding of what makes the other person tick.  A passionate need to achieve, to be successful, to win at life.  This may be the only combination in which both Aries and Leo are willing to give all of themselves to another.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Both have a strong need to win at all costs.  How they win is very different.  Aries is constantly striving for a goal conquer, while Leo, being royalty, assumes they deserve to win.  The conflict here is that they can turn that competitive energy towards each other.

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

A high profile couple made for each other.  Proud, dominant and the opposite of quiet.


ARIES & VIRGO

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Both types are idealist in love, but they approach their ideals from very different places.  Aries wants to charge after his dream of true love, never doubting his ability to achieve the illusive, while Virgo would prefer to analyze things from a distance and detach from the situation before she realizes disillusionment.  There will almost certainly be a knight in shining armor flavor to the beginning of this relationship, which will very quickly be replaced by resentment.  Virgo will analyze his motives and he will wonder why she can’t just relax and be grateful for all he’s done to rescue her!

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Unstable and unsatisfying for both partners.  Aries will feel devitalized and Virgo will feel like Aries is far too immature to merit her total devotion.  Virgo’s worry will nag Aries, and Aries rash insensitivity will remind Virgo why she holds out little hope for other human beings.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: Rash, spontaneity vs need for analysis, reflection and planning

Harmony: Aries will appreciate how Virgo is able to devote herself to his needs, but may feel a little bored by her lack of fire.

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

A bit of an odd couple.  The Aries may seem a little rough on the Virgo and people may think the Virgo is too gentle for the Aries.


ARIES & LIBRA

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Venus and Mars together as opposite signs.  The Libra tendency to treat Aries with gentleness and diplomacy brings out the higher side of Aries.  Inspirational for both partners, Aries will feel inspired to direct his fighting spirit towards a higher ideal and Libra will feel courage in making decisions that she may or may not later regret. 

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Aries with Libra is a growth relationship. There will be plenty of fuel to keep both people interested over a long period of time. 

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

The harmony is between the masculine and feminine energies inherent in these two signs.  Aries is all go and action, Libra is about going with the flow of whatever that action might be.  The conflict comes when Aries is too brash with Libra.  She requires harmony and social tact.  This airy Venusian has no patience for brutish behavior.  Aries may wonder if Libra is as devoted as she says she is, always sensing her airy detachment and feeling like he hasn’t completely succeeded in winning her heart.  As a masculine sign, Aries needs to feel like they’re right and superior in most situations, Libra can bring out his insecurities when he realizes that she is his equal in most areas, and perhaps even his superior in some.

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Like a natural couple.


ARIES & SCORPIO

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS 

Both ruled by Mars, there is a natural intensity to their emotional natures.  Aries will extrovert his emotions and Scorpio will keep them cool and under wraps.  Passionately extreme and incredible when these two are in sync, but the Aries may be put off by the secret nature of the Scorpio, keeping everything so mysterious and hidden, instead of being out with it.  Scorpio will be attracted to the Aries passion, but may find the immaturity or lack of seriousness a little irritating. 

LONG TERM INTERACTION 

These two have the planetary support to create a powerful long term connection, so long as both partners are willing to deal with themes of death and rebirth.  The fights will be monumental, with both partners willing to walk away.  Scorpio is most likely the one to keep the relationship together after a bomb blast, and once Aries cools down, he will appreciate the tenacity of his Scorpio partner in keeping the relationship together.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Aries has met a partner that is probably stronger than he is.  Scorpio will dazzle him with her mysterious dark feminine energy.  But the secrets may be enough to drive him crazy.  Scorpio does not always make sense to Aries.  Why all the complexity?

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

This will look passionate, intense, focused and possible crazy to others.  Outsiders have no idea.  It’s probably even more passionate, intense, focused, and crazy than they could ever guess.


ARIES & SAGITTARIUS

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Like two peas in a pod, Aries and Sagittarius are always up for adventure.  This relationship will burn bright very quickly.  A highly platonic vibe to this coupling, the two most likely keep themselves busy thinking up new ways to get into trouble together. 

LONG TERM INTERACTION

This is an enthusiastic and daring couple that could take each other around the world, if not literally, then metaphorically.  At the same time, this is a couple that has to deal with the Sagittarian desire to have many social contacts and Aries need to be the only one.   

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Sagittarians are notorious for being overly optimistic. Making promises they can’t keep.  The Aries will have little patience for this pattern.  Also there will be a few scenes of jealousy bubbling up irrationally from Aries, the sign that swears he’s not jealous.  Sagittarius has zero tolerance for jealousy, because with it is the insinuation that she’s acted in a way that is less than altruistic.  Sagittarius can’t stand to be judged unjustly and then left to feel like she has to alter her behavior just to satisfy her partner’s irrational and unfounded jealousy. 

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Two peas in a pod.


ARIES & CAPRICORN

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

They will appreciate each other’s assertive, get things down nature.  There may also be a curiosity about how the other is built.  Capricorn is past and conservation oriented, where Aries is future focused.

LONG TERM INTERACTION

These two can both be quite focused on their own projects, not the most passionate couple although could be quite good for business.  Aries will be a little too reckless, spontaneous and out there for Capricorn….and Capricorn will drive Aries crazy with the constant hand-braking and seriousness.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: Aries spontaneity vs Capricorns sober realism, childish vs maturity

Harmony: Leadership, goal oriented, getting things down

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Parent & Child


ARIES & AQUARIUS

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

These two will have no shortage of fun things to do with each other.  The problem may be sitting still long enough to remember where it is they were planning on going together.

LONG TERM INTERACTION

This is the combination of spontaneous go go go energy of Aries and the on again, off again, ADD quality of Aquarius.  Lots of fun, but not always good for a long term relationship. Might start quickly and end just as quickly.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: lack of heat for Aries, too much heat for Aquarius, could have a just friend vibe, may never materialize into a long term serious relationship

Harmony:  both are individualistic so will give each other freedom, enjoy starting new projects together, emotionally light

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Friends and lovers


ARIES & PISCES

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Aries will have his inner hero roused to protect the sensitive heart of Pisces, Pisces may feel safely contained at first and as though she is the one to get Aries to finally settle down.

LONG TERM INTERACTION

This is a relationship that could work well between a male Aries and a female Pisces, I don’t see it working for long in the other direction.  Aries will lead, Pisces will follow in this coupling.  As long as all parties are good with that, the relationship will last.  As soon as there is an issue, or if Pisces decides she doesn’t want to follow anymore, there could be problems.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: assertiveness vs passivity Aries will want Pisces to have an opinion at some point.  It’s no fun dealing with someone who always agrees or doesn’t know what they think. 

Harmony: Aries will like being the leader and will enjoy the way Pisces takes care of his needs.  Pisces will feel needed and protected by her decisive Aries mate, and will love the way he seems to know himself and what he wants.

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Aries dominating Pisces, but they both seem ok with it.