GEMINI

GEMINI IN LOVE: Gemini Suns like to keep things fresh and light.  In love, they especially enjoy conversation and communication.  Bubbly and full of new ideas, they need a partner who will allow them to feel safe in the realm of the deeper emotions.  Their own emotional responses can make them feel a little uneasy and anxious.  They may run from the one they love the most.  Keeping the relationship emotional safe (keep it on the chatty level) will open them to further expressing their love. 

GEMINI EXPECTATIONS IN LOVE:  Space and lots of conversation.  Jokes, naughty sense of humor, playing together.  A partner who uses passive-aggression such as the silent treatment will turn-off the Gemini.  They don’t do well with emotional manipulation.  They also don’t like feeling like their partner is leaning on them for emotional validation.  No clinginess allowed.

GEMINI BIGGEST SECRET:  Gemini can seem flighty and shallow at times, the secret is they worry that maybe their emotional depth is as shallow as it sometimes seems.  Changing direction frequently in life and love, they may feel unsure of what they want emotionally. 

GEMINI & ARIES

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GEMINI & TAURUS

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GEMINI & GEMINI

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Be ready for never ending movement.  Getting these two to sit down and make a plan might be near impossible.  A lot of frenetic energy bouncing here there and everywhere. 

LONG TERM INTERACTION

May be better off as friends, unless we see two earthy moons.  Two watery moons would give us a relationship that seems even more at the whim of mood.  Will be hard to keep these two focusing on one another.  Good match for a relationship that enjoys some openness.  Could be great for two people involved in politics or journalism….on the go and never

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict:  too much alike in the wrong ways, nervous restless energy, always moving, never sitting still, highly cerebral might feel shallow which is fine unless one partner has a watery moon and craves more emotional closeness harmony:  conversation, fun, understand one another

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Relationship with ADD/ADHD


GEMINI & CANCER

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Hard to say what would attract these two to one another.  It might have a parent/child feel, with Cancer the parent and Gemini the child.  The emotionally deep waters of Cancer don’t really do well with the shallow puddles Gemini likes to hop around in….but this could also be the attraction factor.  Gemini might lighten the mood for Cancer and Cancer might bring some much needed gravitas to Gemini.

LONG TERM INTERACTION

This will be a case of needs not being met.  Cancer will feel exhausted by Gemini and never knowing where she stands with him.  Gemini will feel like he’s being smothered by a wet blanket of ickiness.  Both will feel inadequate at meeting each others needs. 

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: air and water don’t do well together, too much serious emotion for Gemini and not enough depth for Cancer , she might feel like the Gemini needs to grow up!

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Weird, how did that happen?


GEMINI & LEO

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

This is the court jester and the king together.   Gemini will entertain Leo, and keep Leo laughing…but may lack the fire to make for the long term passionate affair that Leo needs.    

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Leo needs admiration and loyalty, not just entertainment and busy attention.  Leo will not put up with Gemini’s wandering, flirting with others.  Gemini will feel like Leo wants more than he can give, but will keep coming back to the gravity of Leo.  Can be good if the moons are in harmony.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: Gemini’s flirtatious nature is harmless, nothing meant.  Which also means they apply the same detached energy to their relationship with Leo.  Leo wants true affection and admiration, not just a show.  Gemini will feel like her most basic personality trait of bubbly, friendliness is misunderstood by the Leo.  Harmony: these two will see qualities in the other that are admired…..Leo’s strength and focus of purpose and Gemini’s sense of humor

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

This might work if Gemini can keep it focused and Leo can let the ego go.


GEMINI & VIRGO

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS 

Both ruled by mercury, these two appreciate conversation but from very different places…gemini is more about extroverting thinking/conversation where virgo is about introverting thinking/ analyzing things.  Gemini might be able to draw out Virgo and Virgo might help Gemini place some discipline to their thought process.

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Not the best combo for fluffy romance, which is ok because neither partner is impressed by nor needs those things (unless we have some passionate Moon or Venus energy in here) Would be  a nice combo for work, but each will feel exhausted by the interchange.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: Gemini is an in your face extroverted energy, Virgo is an introspective inward energy…they will annoy each other to no end.  “why won’t you talk?” asks Gemini  “why won’t you shut up?” wonders the Virgo

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Weird and I wonder how long that will last. 


GEMINI & LIBRA

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS 

oth air signs with a need for social contact, they will have the wittiest of witty bantar together

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Is a nice mix, but if one has a fire or water moon, there may be a lack of a deeper connection…but they would make awesome friends. With air moons, this would be a very busy, social couple…perfectly content to keep the relationship in the realm of the mind and not too heavy

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: Gemini is a flirt, Libra is vain and quite competitive….and doesn’t do well with her partner wandering  as long as she knows her Gemini is in love with her though, she won’t mind….he’s not the only flirt in this coupling.  Harmony:  late night conversations, traveling, pillow talk, witty texting and more talking

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Chatty, bubbly and sparkly


GEMINI & SCORPIO

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Ultimately an unharmonious mix, Scorpio needs life or death depth, to the core with the partner, and Gemini is apt to laugh or run when those extremely intimate moments of held eye contact come….unless the Gemini has a watery moon, this is not a good mix and prone to die an early death.  Could work well together, all of Gemini’s ideas could be molded and shaped by Scorpio into a workable plan.  They would have the ability to get what they wanted from others.  Gemini dancing around and scorpio using his deep understanding of psychology to craft a strategy that would leave the other person dumbfounded. 

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict:  Scorpio likes to exert a certain amount of control over their partner, Gemini might be willing to let that happen at first, at least superficially, but will get tired of being manipulated and will leave to never look back again.  Scorpio will need more of an emotional commitment, the part that Gemini keeps reserved for himself.   

Harmony:  Scorpio gives some direction and focus to gemini’s busy energy, might get more done with Scorpio than with others.

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Not going to last.


GEMINI & SAGITTARIUS

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Opposite signs, both mutable and in complementary elements….these two have a lot of energy and dynamism together.  Both liking freedom to expand and have many opportunities to do what they want.  They’ll be attracted to the energy that will natural exist.  A magnetic attraction of mirroring and oppositions.

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Could be a very harmonious relationship, lots of room for learning and growth.  Main issue will be the need for focus and direction.  If one or both have earthy moons, this will help.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: lack of focus, see above, flirting could be an issue 

Harmony:  both love to flirt, both love to spontaneously go go go

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Where are you two traveling this week?  On the go, never sit down.


GEMINI & CAPRICORN

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS 

These two probably met at work, I can’t see how else they would come together.  Capricorn will appreciate Gemini’s quick mind and light hearted approach to life, which is so different from his own.  Gemini will like Capricorn’s “grown-upness”, and will feel protected and directed by him.

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Tricky, Capricorn want to put boundaries and limits on things, Gemini wants to bounce around from thing to thing.  Ultimately this will cause the breaking up.  Gemini might wander from Capricorn if feeling trapped or forced to be something other than what feels natural.  Capricorn will feel crazy at times with all of this change of directions and focus. 

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: too much of a parent child thing happening, just like Gemini and cancer, both will come to resent over time

Harmony:  parent child relationship, both have a role to play

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Parent child relationship, or at least one where one partner is leaning on the other for material support.


GEMINI & AQUARIUS

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

These two make a harmonious blend.  Not outright hot attraction, but a meeting of the minds.  Expect a lot of weird activities or at least unexpected hobbies. 

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Without fire or water or even earth on the Moons, the air sign/air sign relationships can feel platonic or flighty, there’s not necessarily a desire to make the relationship anything more than the meeting in the logical/rational world of ideas.  If both partners are airy, that’s fine, but if there is an imbalance, then you could have a problem.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: not too many with these two, other than deciding on what to do with all that mental energy, aquarius is weird and Gemini gets the jokes and laughs….the main conflict will be from the outer world, most likely a couple where both have many friends of the opposite sex so cheating could be an issue, may lack the fire to keep each other sexually interested

Harmony:  get each others jokes and eccentricities, always something to talk about

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

Friends & lovers


GEMINI & PISCES

WHAT WILL INITIALLY ATTRACT OR REPULSE THESE SUN SIGNS

Very odd combo…..not sure what would attract these two unless the Gemini has a water or earth and the Pisces has air.  Otherwise these two are both so mutable and looking to the partner to direct the focus of the relationship and there might be the issue of no one being willing to initiate anything

LONG TERM INTERACTION

Pisces will do whatever Gemini asks, and Gemini is willing to keep being his charming self and let her serve his needs.

SPECIFIC AREAS OF CONFLICT & HARMONY

Conflict: such different needs….pisces needs the soul merge and Gemini is focused on dancing around the fact that he has a soul, wants to keep things light and will make jokes about her romantic sensibilities. 

Harmony: hmm….if they have moons that are compatible, that’s where you’ll find harmony

HOW OTHERS SEE THE PARTNERSHIP

A fun, imaginative couple…might lack solid feet on the ground, and seem impractical at times.